As an Austin
Divorce attorney, it has
surprised me over the years how many clients (many with successful careers)
have arrived for their hearing inappropriately dressed or poorly groomed. Family court judges are not just listening to
what the parties say; they’re observing their demeanor, tone and
appearance. Because the facts of Austin
child custody and divorce
cases are often very similar, the judges hear the same talking points again and
again, which means there is an even greater level of importance placed on
what’s communicated non-verbally.
The Do's and Don'ts on Dressing
Appropriately for Court:
DO
- Neatly pressed
business or business casual attire in a neutral colors such as black, navy, charcoal, gray, or khaki
is ideal
DON'T
- No shorts, jeans,
flip-flops, un-tucked shirts or T-shirts (in most courtrooms, this attire is
forbidden).
- No un-ironed or
ripped clothing
- No messy,
unwashed hair or untrimmed facial hair.
- If you have
tattoos, wear something that covers them up, and if you have visible piercings
(except for women with a single piercing in each ear), remove whatever can be
removed before your hearing. It may be
old-fashioned, but body-art and piercings are still often perceived as
irreverent and irresponsible.
- No short skirts,
stilettos or revealing clothing
- Do not overdress
(showing up in a cocktail dress or three-piece suit communicates that you’re
trying too hard and looks out of place).
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